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Kristen Stewart cheating scandal: Rupert Sanders’ wife Liberty Ross spotted out without her wedding ring | RabbitsVox.com


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Liberty Ross may be using her fingers to signal her marriage to Rupert Sanders is over, just weeks after the director apologized for his affair with actress Kristen Stewart.

The model, 33, was photographed out and about in California on Sunday and Monday looking stunning – but lacking one notable accessory: her wedding ring.

Ross was seen in the Monterey area in California on Sunday, holding up her… See on rabbitsvox.com ENTER THE RABBIT!

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Latina Cougars on the Prowl | RabbitsVox.com


 

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The rich 85-Year-Old Spanish Duchess of Alba, Maria del Rosario Cayetana Alfonsa Victoria Eugenia Francisca Fitz-James Stuart, wed for the third time last… See on rabbitsvox.com ENTER THE RABBIT!

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‘Real Housewife’ Kim Zolciak Will Be Homeless Soon


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Despite earlier reports that she was being evicted from her Georgia mansion, Don’t Be Tardy for the Wedding star & Real Housewife Kim Zolciak now insists that she isn’t…  See on www.cafemom.com

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If you don’t like it, then STOP looking!


Unfortunately when you are a strong person, people think that you never have problems. You are always there for others when they need you, but you always keep your troubles to yourself. However, the minute that you have problems and share your emotions, some people immediately think that your whole world is falling apart and that you can’t keep it together!

Just because I keep it to myself all the time and fix it on my own, does not mean that I do not need a loving friend, word or shoulder sometimes. Being understood and loved instead of  judged is a very nice way to show someone that you truly love them. It has always been naturally hard for me to show my emotions or ask for help. I’ve always known to keep it all to myself and never ask for anything, not even a kind word or a hug from anyone. It’s been a “Suck it up and deal with it” kind of attitude! To the point that even close friends and family members think that my life is PERFECT and that I NEVER have PROBLEMS!

Well, guess what? I refuse to do that anymore. If that makes some people feel uncomfortable, they will just simply have to deal with it! I will no longer be a post for someone to lean on, when they can’t even provide me with a bucket to sit on! From here on, I will not keep it in anymore. If anything, sharing it all may help others who may be dealing with similar situations, to know that they are not alone and that they too can make it right and take control of their lives one way or another.

Besides if someone can’t deal with me at my worst and when I fall, instead of helping me up they judge me, then there is no point in them sticking around, now is there? Nor do I want them to!

I am who I am, period. I will not pretend nor be something else in the presence of others, just so others can feel comfortable with mine! What you see is what you get and if you don’t like it, then STOP looking!

Ingrid Jackson

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And frankly, who gives a shit? – By Ingrid Jackson


Seems like nowadays, everywhere that I turn, someone is trying to tell me what to do, how to be, what to say,  what to believe in, who to love, how to lead my life, etc. It is true that most people do mean well and want “the best for you“ but sometimes meaning well and wanting me to be something or someone who I am not, just so the rest of the 6,840,507,003 other people in the world can feel comfortable with my presence in it, just does not ring right to me and frankly that makes me feel freaking uncomfortable. I mean, really, are you freaking kidding me? ( I am trying to be a lady here, but truth be told I did want to use the “F” word, feel free to fill in the blanks for me! )

I mean, it is okay to share your thoughts and findings with the world according to your own perception, there is NOTHING wrong with that. The problem lies in imposing those findings or ways of being on others. Then, having or trying to get the world to believe that if they do not follow suit that they are doomed, unaccepted and plainly treated like shit or third class citizens. All because supposedly you are not doing things “the right way“ and thus making  people feel awkward, undeserving, weird, unappreciated, abused, stupid, less than, etc… Doing this to other people is WRONG!

I mean who made anyone an authority in “being-ness?” You are who you are, period! The truth is that every single person on this planet is fighting the same fight, no exceptions. All we really need is love and acceptance, not someone barking at us telling us how to lead our lives! I think that it is great that some people think that they have it all figured out and you know what? Maybe they have and there is nothing wrong with sharing it. Hey, If your findings give you inner peace and purpose, then more power to you! What I have a problem with is when some people think that they know “how everything in the whole freaking universe works” and then want me to follow suit. My answer to that is a HUGE, NO Freaking WAY Jose!

I love being different and being around people who are different than I am. That is what makes life fun, adventurous and exciting. I love the differences in opinions, in ways of being, in backgrounds, skin color, religious beliefs, music, accents, flavors etc. True, there are some things that I do not like or tolerate about other people but that is because it is just the way I am, not because there is something wrong with others. Just because I feel uncomfortable with the way someone else is, that does not all of a sudden make my ways right, making me the epitome of perfection. I mean “how dare you?” And who the hell do you think you are to tell anyone how they should lead their lives? All because you think that you know “what is best for me and others” I mean really?

As long as you are not physically or mentally hurting others and stealing what they worked so hard to earn, I believe in live and let live. Why should I care about who you marry, what your religion is, your skin color, country of origin, etc? I want you to be you, now get out of my way and let me be me. I want to be able to enjoy my existence on this planet to the best of my ability in a way that I can be genuine, be able to celebrate who I am and not be ashamed of being me and I want the same for you.

If there are things about others that I do not like or the environment that they chose to be in,  instead of imposing that others change so I can feel better, I just remove myself from the presence of that individual or their environment, it is that simple! It would be erroneous and unfair for me to think that the world revolves around me, that everyone must change and must cater to me, so I can feel comfortable and safe. Every one has the right to be here and who the hell am I to tell anyone how to live their lives!

And frankly, who gives a shit? – By Ingrid Jackson

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